Girls....

           Now this is going to be a very broad non specific generalization about Girls...I've just noticed a few girls lately in and out of school that made me want to write this blog. It's really sad actually, but at the same time it makes you question a lot of things.

           I feel that now as adults, we should all be making better choices then sleeping around with random people, and having no self respect. I wouldn't call myself a huge feminist, because i'm very old fashioned and feel that the man is the head of the household (in a sense, because I still feel like compromising and communication is key) and women should be doing more of the child rearing, cooking, cleaning etc. (NOW before you jump the gun this is what I feel for MYSELF, every situation differs but this is what works for me). Anyways, where I'm getting with this whole feminism thing is, RESPECT yourselves, don't let a guys attention or sexual advances make you just give in to whatever they say or do.  I know as females we need the emotional aspect, and if a guy tells you that you are beautiful over and over again, don't just give in and sleep with the guy. I feel like a lot of girls I know will give it up to any guy who meets their emotional needs. and chances are girls, you'll probably have some sort of attachment to a regular friend with benefits of some sort, its in our being as girls.

           Also, since we're all adults now...guys do not like stupid girls, they don't like needy girls, and they don't like you to whine and be obsessed with them (again, I'm just talking about my observations through relationships around me). Guys like confident women, who can do things on their own, yet still need a guys help. Guys like to be respected and they like helping us out with things that we can't do. But when girls get needy, play dumb, and whine about little habits it just seems like common sense that its a natural turn off. From growing up with guys, and having close guy friends, it seems like everything girls think guys like...they don't...

        I guess what I'm getting at is, just be yourself. One day, when you're not looking (which is key), some guy will sweep you off your feet, and you'll have that fairy tale that you always dreamt of as a little girl. But for the time being work on being independent (yet still allowing for guys to help you and do your job), be as confident as you can be ( i know this is a Very hard task for many people both girls and boys),  and please have more respect for yourselves, guys don't think its attractive when you're "number" is 15+ guys....

and don't worry...I'll have my observations of guys next week.
**just remember, these are my own observations of a few relationships and people around me.**